Hey LaLa,
I’ve always wanted to have a threesome but now that I think I have an opportunity, I am hesitant to try it. What are your thoughts on the two boys & one girl combo versus the two girls & one boy combo? Or is three too much of a crowd?
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Hi,
A threesome could be the most fun, awkward, miserable and/or unusual sexual experience of your life. Personally, I checked this off my sexual bucket list last fall and it was worth it. The spontaneous offer—made by two adventurous friends— was quite the wild ride! A fan of all things French, I went for the Eiffel tower approach. Plus, I don’t like to share. Obviously, there is a lot of dick action. It’s also a challenge to be fucked while giving head, but I was overall satisfied, and I’d like to hope my fuckbuddies were too. For me, I think it was successful because we all took things lightly and didn’t let any awkwardness or hesitation bother us. I’d be down for a second, third, or maybe even fourth attempt.
That being said, I can’t recommend which combo you should try or if three really is a crowd. That decision is deeply personal and definitely isn’t for everyone. Two girls and a guy may seem more comfortable for some groups especially if the ménage a trois is a friendly one. I’d assume most straight guys would love to fuck two girls at the same time. On the other hand, two guys and a girl can be a lot to handle for the girl involved, but she definitely is the center of attention. The guys involved can also choose their level of interaction from one another so it can range from super bro-y to a deeply intimate experience for all parties. Additionally, triplets can opt to all be of the same gender. Myriad combinations across the sexual spectrum are possible—and that’s what makes threesomes simultaneously thrilling and taboo. That being said, for a lot of people, three is just one too many. The options with threesomes are so vast that it’s hard to objectively judge or recommend an experience.
I do have a few suggestions for those interested in giving it a go. First, if you are in a relationship, I highly recommend NOT bringing in a friend. This will almost always create jealousy and weird unspoken tension after. Try an acquaintance. Or look into Tindr, Grindr, or Craiglist (if you’re into serial killers). However, for a more casual threesome, it may be a better experience to be among friends. I liked knowing my partners rather well. It made me more comfortable, so you might prefer that, too. Second, don’t take things personally and know some moments will be awkward or won’t go so smoothly. This is normal. Expect it. Trust me it won’t look like porn but it can be a great way for some to explore their sexuality. Finally, make sure to set some guidelines before taking your clothes off. If you feel something in the moment and want to try it, go for it. It just helps if every person shares what he/she is comfortable with and what he/she expects so that nothing crosses a line for someone. This only maximizes the pleasure for everyone. Regardless of what you decide, grab a partner (or more) and have some fun. ;)
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LaLa
